Suppose you take a length of ordinary wire, make it into a big loop, and lay it between the poles of a powerful, permanent horseshoe magnet. Now if you connect the two ends of the wire to a battery, the wire will jump up briefly. It is amazing when you see this for the first time. It is just like magic! But there is a perfectly scientific explanation. When an electric current starts to creep along a wire, it creates a magnetic field all around it.
For wiring a single-phase motor, the most important objective is to distinguish the starting circuit from the main winding. These two circuits are isolated from one another electrically if the lead wires are separarted and not in contact with each other. Initially, the ohmeter can be used to determine which wire belongs to which circuit as well as checking continuity between leads.
Using the ohmmeter, find the pair of wires that has the highest resistence as measured in ohms. This will give you your common and lowest speed tap. Using each of these two leads in turn, find the pair that gives you the the second-highest resistance. This should provide you the common and second-lowest speed tap and should also allow you to isolate which of the two leads from the first test is the common.
The power of simple is manifested in that others were able to build from the foundation Einstein identified and defined. They were able to accomplish things they most likely could not have otherwise. We also have experienced this phenomenon. Consider Ohm law. Georg Ohm did the hard work and broke down the complex to a simple law. We use the principles contained in that law as a starting point to understand the complexities of electricity and circuit dynamics.